The transcript of this video is below.
Parents care a lot about grades. They want their kids to get into a good school to get a good job.
But who defines good?
It’s not a word that dictates any more about a person than the buzzwords on their resume.
My freshman year of high school I would cry over my math homework at the desk in our living room. No matter how much effort I put into studying, I never felt like I understood what I needed to do to succeed.
I never felt good about my work or the class. I asked the teacher for help, but that never felt like enough.
One day while crying over a failed test my mom asked me: “Did you try?”
I told her I asked the teacher for help after school, I did extra homework problems. Whatever the teacher recommended, I did.
She then asked, “Did you do everything you could?”
I told her yes.
She patted my back and hugged me. “Then you gave it your best. It’s okay that you’re not good at math. At least you can say you tried.”
Failure sucks. It is the worst feeling to know you didn’t succeed somewhere that you should have. But failure or the feeling of failure isn’t something to look at negatively.
If you tried and did all you could, then you didn’t fail.
You did your best.
It’s okay to not be good at something.